Hi, I’m
Melodi Kitzmiller
Are you experiencing spiritual manipulation?
If you've been hurt by a church that claimed to love Jesus but left you feeling broken, you're not alone—and you don’t have to heal alone.
Virtually instructing and coaching women who desire to live spiritually free, mentally well, and emotionally healthy so they are SAFE and still have their faith.
Creating Content that frees women from the deception of conservative Christian churches by exposing what God REALLY said.
Thank you for visiting my website.
It was in my early forties, just after my husband had died, that men in my church began to pressure me to do what they deemed best for my family. The pressure on top of losing my husband became unbearable, and I had no choice but to leave my church due to manipulation and control.
In this free booklet, Five Things I Wish I Had Known Before Leaving a Manipulative Church.
What clients say…
“I’ve learned more from her in few minutes than I learned from my therapist. ”
“Working with Melodi is like finding help from a knowledgeable friend. She gave support as I grieved and healed.”
“She made the concepts I needed easy to understand and warmly invited me to heal.”
“She was supportive and understood me. I felt seen and heard”
Ready to start your healing journey? Apply for coaching today.
I am passionate about helping women who have been hurt in church or spiritually. I want to help them to live free from anxiety, depression, and the deep pain of spiritual harm.
Because of this I create free resources to help women who are in spiritually manipulative, controlling or hurtful places.
Find me on Substack, Instagram or X.
“They have healed the wound of my people lightly, saying, ‘Peace, peace,’ where there is no peace.”
— Jeremiah 6:13
Working with me means you will have a safe, confidential place to process the hurt you have experienced.
With a clinical background in counseling and nearly 10 years of education…
Graduate of Liberty University
Master of Arts 2021
Bachelor of Science 2017
Psi Chi Member
since 2017
Psychology Honor Society
Member of
American Association of Christian Counselors
since 2015
Psychology PhD
Candidate
Walden University
Completion of Certificates in
Narrative Trauma Therapy
Certificates 1 & 2
Allender Center