I help Christian women who have experienced spiritual abuse to find the truth, live free from man-made rules, and have peace.

One of the most important things to me in my thirties was raising my kids to love and follow Jesus. A Christian guru told me that if I followed what he said, my children would grow to be adults, “Mighty in Spirit”.

Bill Gothard promised us this, and like thousands of other families, I did my best to make my world as navy and white as possible. What I didn’t know was that Gothard was lying to us as he harmed teen girls! A mass deception.

More than a decade ago, I walked away from fundamentalism, Gothard, and patriarchy because patriarchal men do not know what to do with a young widow who can think for herself and her family.

This is one reason that I am passionate about helping women who have been oppressed by patriarchy.

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With a clinical background in counseling and nearly 10 years of education…

Graduate of Liberty University

Master of Arts 2021

Bachelor of Science 2017

Member of

American Association of Christian Counselors

since 2015

Psi Chi Member

since 2017

Psychology Honor Society

Psychology PhD

Candidate

Walden University

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Completion of Certificates in

Narrative Trauma Therapy

Certificates 1 & 2

Allender Center

Some things we may have in common:

  • I lived in a conservative setting for more than 20 years.

  • Attended an Independent Fundamental Baptist Church for more than a decade.

  • I checked the boxes: home-schooling, wearing dresses to my ankles, only listening to hymns, and anything else I thought made me more pleasing to God.  

  • God helped me to navigate away from legalism, and if you are here because you are still in this lifestyle and are curious, please keep reading.

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My journey out of legalism

Way back then…

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It was a Sunday morning when God showed me how I had put my man-made rules before Him. This broke my heart. I never want anything to come before Him. But this was just the beginning of my journey.

Only months before, my husband had died in an auto accident.

While he was living, I was protected from other men in the church, but now they could put pressure on me to conform to the implied man-made rules. It was either do what they said or leave.

I will always choose to follow Jesus, so we left.

Panic, anxiety, and being overwhelmed, but as the days passed, the oppression began to lift and then breath.

I didn’t know I wasn’t breathing.

Ultimately, I would have to move 2 hours away to get the church people to stop badgering my kids, but eventually, we were free.

I survived and thrive in life now, and you can too