Exposing the Lie About the Proverbs 31 Woman: Take Off the Fundamentalist Glasses

Written By Melodi Kitzmiller

They told us the Proverbs 31 woman stayed in the kitchen.

That she was quiet, submissive, and tireless in her homemaking.

But when I took off my fundamentalist glasses, I saw something very different.

She was a buyer, a builder, a boss.
She clothed herself in strength—not shame.
She spoke with wisdom—not silence.
She made decisions without waiting for permission.

If you’ve ever been crushed by this passage instead of comforted—this is for you.

Melodi Kitzmiller

Christian mental health coaching, and teaching how to live well after experiencing traumatic events, which may include suffering from anxiety, post-trauma symptoms, and depression, and aren’t sure where to go from here. Melodi holds a master of arts in trauma and crisis counseling and works from a Christian worldview. She has helped adults who have suffered traumatic childhoods, spiritual abuse, childhood sexual abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse, and those who are simply searching to find the fulfillment that a life of well-being can bring.

https://MelodiKitzmiller.com
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